Discussion Post: How frequently do you typically want it?
This is a fun topic to discuss as everyone has different perspectives and reasoning behind their perspectives. So why not get to know each other and hear different perspectives, right?
How frequently do you typically want it? How frequently do you want to connect with someone? Whether it’s a partner or a casual fuck buddy. How frequently do you want to, crave, and be within them?
My answer: As with most things, my answer is never black and white. I have sex often but will go on dry spells if my body is feeling off from maybe life and/or stress. I occasionally find myself in partner-related issues that may force a desire of a “dry spell”. Allow me to further elaborate….
Not too recently but recent enough, I had been bogged down with life and work and I couldn’t really find the time to do anything. When I finally did have time, I just couldn’t bring myself to scramble up the energy to do the whole flirting and the “come over” text thing. I honestly only had the time and energy for what I could and needed to prioritize.
Don’t allow yourself to be misled, sex did cross my mind several times. My mind is always on sex and how often i can get creamed. I daydreamed multiple times about being consumed and devoured from top to bottom. I dreamed about who I would fuck as soon as I accomplished everything I needed to during my mini hiatus. I would make a mental list of past partners that fucked me well and left me shaking after every sexcation. However, I was aware of what I needed to do in order to be able to be that high-energy, sexual demon of a Goddess that I am most of the time. Fortunately and unfortunately, an active sex life comes with dry spells- which is life.
I know many of you love to hear the naughty, fucking like rabbits side of me. However, I like to give you all sides of me 😋
So tell me… How frequently do you typically want it?
I'm pretty much the way you described it - when I was younger I thought I needed to fuck at least once every day. Before then I used to masturbate which is pretty much all I do anymore :
I can't afford escorts and it's too much effort. My belief is this - there is a physical component to it. I do get horny every now and again, physically less so now that I'm an old man. So there's this thing that's probably true maybe for all of us and there's probably a name for it but the wilder the thoughts are and the more liberated and encouraged the better the orgasm - and that in itself takes time - so if I don't have the time then usually, within reason, it's the 1st thing I do when I complete something I'm working on - I set goals for myself so that all of it fits together and when one becomes overwhelming to the other, I succumb; and over time I've realized that one actually does drive the other.
When I was a teenager there was this older guy I befriended. He used to roll his own cigarettes. Sometimes he'd roll one, light it up, take a drag, inhale look at it, put it out ,and stick it behind his ear. So one day I asked him why he did that and he said : Sometimes you light up a cigarette and it's just right and you smoke it right down. Other times you Think it's going to be just right and it isn't. So if you don't enjoy it, put it out and save it for later. 😎✌
2-3 times per day, sometimes more on good days. But yep.. sometimes life gets in the way unfortunately!